My tomatoes love me.
Last spring, I set my mind on making use of my large outdoor patio. I planned to start small—just a few plants native to NY. I dove into research, emailing nurseries, making charts, and sketching plans.
Around this time, I went upstate to visit a friend. When we met up, she opened her trunk—it was full of tiny seedlings. She had grown them from seed and was about to leave town, so she needed volunteers to give them a home. Standing in the parking lot, she unloaded them one by one: arugula from Palestine, tomatoes and eggplant from Iraq, and basil from Iran. Far from NY, but full of meaning—plants from places impacted by U.S. imperialism.
I adopted several, a little nervous about the responsibility, and brought them home to fill my patio pots.
Over the summer, tiny flowers became fruit, and caring for them quickly became the highlight of my days. I remember the first sungold I ate—so sweet, like candy. Nourishing in a way only something you grow yourself can be (a grocery tomato could never!).
As my little garden grew, I kept thinking of Braiding Sweetgrass, when Robin asks her students, “Does the earth love you back?” Popping sungolds into my mouth, I thought, “Yes, it really does.”
My dog, Alma, provides emotional support and participated by digging in the dirt and eating tomatoes straight off the vine.
My aspirations are quite humble. If I can achieve what I did last summer, I’ll be very content. I am hoping to find local resources for affordable, organic soil (it’s so expensive!) and would like to add some of the native NY plants that I previously mentioned into the mix, too. I’d also love to grow my knowledge of ecology so that I can be the best plant mother I can.

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